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Being In Love and Loving Someone

Being In Love and Loving Someone

A teacher said once: ” We really don’t fall in and out of love. Love is always there it just needs to be tapped in order for it to blossom.” We may never find our soul mate in this lifetime but who knows? He or she maybe just beside you waiting.

Love

Why hold someone back…
when u know u don’t love them…
Why keep them to yourself…
when u know you won’t wanna have them?
Why let them miss other chances…
when they can have them?
If you really don’t love someone….
let them go…hurt them NOW.. not later…
for a longer relationship builds stronger emotions…
A good relationship isn’t a game you play or an ego trip you take.

It is about love and two people.

Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too.

When it does not really hurt when that person did something disappointing to you, but re ally hurts when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person.

Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time. That’s the reward and that’s the risk. Unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it’s like to love and be loved.

Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have.And there’s a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. It’s the difference between a love that’s fickle, wild and short-lived and one that’s tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time.

The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes work because it’s about keeping a relationship.
Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other. Nobody can read anyone else’s mind. We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other’s thoughts but it’s never perfect and takes time to develop.

Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be. Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other.

True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true love which makes a person change for the better.
The power of true love to a person is undeniable.
A relationship needs commitments too.

What is love without commitments from each other anyway? It’s like principles and values.

Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them.
The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love. “Love is like an antique vase. It’s hard to find, hard to net, but easy to break.”
Every day everywhere, people fall in love … but just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love?
I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words “I love you”…but more often than not, the truth is just — I am IN love with you.
There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone.

If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the present you.
This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship.. where both were only In love with each other.
But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the past and whi you might be in the future.

When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you’re in love with the idea of being in love.

It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking. Let your heart guide you.

May you be blessed on your soul-searching journey for your soul mate.

ARE YOU REALLY IN LOVE? ASK

Is this true love?
Do I really love him/her? Or is it just another infatuation?
Are You willing to give?
Even though you may not get back the same amount you gave? and Are You cheating yourself? Thinking that you really love him/her and not just taking him/her as a substitute for your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend?

Friends, let today be the day……. you truly understand love……

If after reading this and answering all the questions, you are very sure that you love him/her, tell him/her that.

Let him/her know how much you love him/her and that you ar e willing to take the risks of being hurt by him/her in the course of the development of your relationship with him/her. This is a love that’s sacrificial.

Are You ready for it?

If you accept someone’s philosophy that is simply their rationalisation to justify their failure, you accept their failures!

**The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take.**

**If you think something will make you happy, go for it.**

** Remember that we pass this way only once.**

July 18, 2011 - Posted by | Relationship/Love

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