Rules in Surviving Love as they says…
Do not fall in love everytime you fall in bed.
.. Learn to detach emotionally
Sex does not equal commitment.
Do not revolve your entire life around him/her.
… Addiction is bad for your health!
Do not cling, act needy or demand.
… Doormats are for your feet, not your heart.
It’s OK to say NO!
Stop talking so much. NEVER reveal everything.
Do not grill them or their friends for information.
Master the art of LISTENING.
Treat him/her as you would your best friend.
Friendship creates long term love and comes before
FORGET about fixing your partner. IT WILL NEVER
Your choice of partner is a reflection of who you are
and who you are not!
Enjoy the moment first. Live in the present.
… Don’t worry about the ex’s or start naming your
NEVER read their journal or go through their
… If you have no trust, you have no relationship.
Allow space and freedom between you.
DO NOT always be available.
Calling frequently is a turn off and signals
insecurity, neediness and control.
Open your eyes to lies and cheating, OR… close them,
justify the bad behavior, and live with the
Little or no eye contact? Start walking. They won’t
even notice your gone.
Anyone preoccupied with their physical appearance and
dress, usually have very little or nothing to offer
… Look beyond the physical!
Never compromise your values.
If you OVER give, you will lose your lover and his
respect. DO NOT LOSE YOUR IDENTITY.
December/May relationships are great. However, seasons
change and the May lover will sooner or later, hear
the call of Spring.
If someone REALLY wants to be with you, they will be.
Sleeping with a married man?! Don’t count on him
divorcing anytime soon.
State your personal rules in the very beginning or
expect them to be broken.
If they ask to be just friends, be just that and look
elsewhere for a love partner.
If someone wants to really be with you, they will. If
they keep giving reasons for not calling or say they
are extremely busy, GET THE HINT, leave them alone.
Marriage before thirty is an inevitable celebration
Don’t ever give up your friends for him/her.
If your partner one day leaves you, be sure you have
friends, money, a career and a life of your own which
you never gave up.
… If you do not, who do you have to blame but
“Hopeless romantics are only hopeless in the eyes of
those who don’t believe in romance”
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